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Lost My Mother

Lost My Mother

Jan,22,2011.

I don't know if any of you thought where I have been since the past few days......but all I can tell you is that I have undergone the worst time of my life during these days as my Mom died recently at an early age of 58. 

She was everything to me, I indeed know that I can't live without her, I mean it's almost impossible for me to believe that she is no more there with me !!

Can't write more .....

 

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Reply #26 Top

The lost of loved ones is always hard and you find yourself in a place that is very difficult to move on from. 

One thing to realize is that the love you and your family had with and between the departed one is not gone. 

The last thing they would want is for you and your family to get on with your life.  Honor, remember and celebrate your Mother with each new day.

Reply #27 Top

So very sorry amit. Nothing I could say will help as only time helps to ease the pain. My paryers go out for you and your father and he needs you more now then he ever has.

Reply #28 Top

My sympathies to you and your family.

Reply #29 Top

I am sorry about this terrible news, I bring you all my sympathy even if I know that all these attentions cannot replace the person who left you.

Reply #30 Top

I am so sorry to hear that my friend My condolences to you and your

Reply #31 Top

Hi Amit,

I just read your post. I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your Mother. It is one of the hardest parts of life's journey that any of us has to endure. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely, winstar4

Reply #32 Top

im so sorry to hear about your loss, i have the same beliefs as Doc, you will see her again... xxxx

Reply #33 Top

I am so sorry Amit...

Reply #34 Top

I know how you feel my friend, I lost my mother not too long ago. All I can say is that, eventually, you will be able to think of her and smile. Hold on to the good memories.

take care.............. Bry.

Reply #35 Top

I feel so sad for you to have lost your mum at all...leave alone at a time when you are both so young....

take comfort in the fact she instilled such love in you that it will always remain with you.... you will take that forward with you forever... and pass her memory and love onto your own children in time... 

I hope you and your dad are able to find comfort in each other... and take care of yourself while you go through this difficult time...

As people have said in previous comments... in time.. it will soften.. and you will smile at all the good memories... 

Reply #36 Top

Deepest condolences 

Reply #37 Top

Im sorry man... I hope you will be ok... we all have to be.. at some point. Dig deep, you will see her again.

Reply #38 Top

I am so sorry Amit to hear this terrible news. Your heart must feel as if it has been torn out of your chest. I wish there was something I could do to help with your pain but all I can do is tell you that I am very sorry.

Reply #39 Top

I regard all the kind words you all have written....and your sympathy for the loss.

Wincustomize has just been like my 2nd family ever since I joined here and all you people like my family members !!

All i've seen here in 2 years is only good people who are always helpful and caring.

Reply #40 Top

I`m so sorry to hear of your loss, Amit :'(

My deepest condolences.

Reply #41 Top

My heart goes out to you!

Reply #42 Top

Amit;

I as the others feel your pain. I am in the process of going through it now myself. (My GOODNESS I am 58???). Best of luck!

My Mother just couldn’t live by herself anymore (she just wanted independence). I had been trying for years to get her to come live here. My mother has been bouncing around so much of late, but it never worked out for her. She was not religious enough for my youngest brother (she is a Christian?), nor was she queer enough for the middle brother (who is). So after years of trying, I flew out to Texas and rescued her from the persecution of my youngest brother and brought here, Home.

She now lives with me and professes to never have been happier (since my Dad died many years ago). And although she is here for me to care for, the damage is all done … and I can only sit back and hopelessly watch her die (painfully) and try to make her comfortable. This is absolutely the most difficult thing I have ever had to do … so I do understand your pain.