Vampothika Vampothika

goodbye

goodbye

Just posting to say im leaving wincustomize for good.

many reasons involved as to why im leaving, and i wont be coming back this time.....I want to enjoy my life in peace and love and happiness. and I intend to do just that.

my latest master skin has been deleted by me. sorry guys, but its just the way it turned out.......

bye.

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Reply #26 Top

;)

Reply #27 Top

Vampothika now that is more like it.  :sun:

Reply #28 Top

I'm confuzzled.

I've seen Stardock step in on a lot of things. Sometimes in ends up in someone being banned or demoted. Sometimes it's just to set things right again.

So what the hell is going on here?!?!?!!?

C'mon!

Half the regulars know what the hell this is about.

Some mods and admins know.

Some have 'first hand' knowledge.

Who the hell runs things and who the hell is holding who hostage?

Are the new changes coming going to prevent this kind of shit? Is that why no one is stepping up? It's all gonna go away soon enough?

Five years ago this shit wouldn't have been tolerated. No way.

People have been banned for disagreeing so strongly with site policy or opinion that they threatened to pull their work and they were helped out the door for doing just that. At that point, I figured no one person would ever be able to manipulate the powers that be. Apparently I was wrong. It just takes one and a small host of goons who are willing to drink the Kool-Aid.

Reply #30 Top

PoSmedley the only way to stop things like this from happening is to confront them head on, goons fall by the wayside when the instigator is throttled and put in their place. 

We all have opinions and granted some of us are more opinionated than others but we should never force those opinions on anyone. 

Reply #31 Top

We all have opinions and granted some of us are more opinionated than others but we should never force those opinions on anyone.

Funny how some opinions come off as forced and overly negative on just specific skins and then are sweet on others.

My three year old can cover her ass better.

I'm open to opinions. Always.

Lately it's just hard to distinguish an opinion from a malicious-vengeful-bitchfit. Especially when it comes from someone who should be setting an example and not leading the hissies to a poisoned well.

Reply #32 Top

When something bad happens in a Community...any Community the norms are enforced by those with the authority to do so.

However, it is not enough that justice be done, it must be seen to be done.

The offense should be made public and the proof against the offenders. The punishment must also be seen to be done.

That's the way it's done.

If there are rules that contravene this, I'd like to know where I can find them, and how to change them.

Reply #33 Top

Good news!   :thumbsup:  

Reply #34 Top

Quoting Vampothika, reply 24
Jafo has been having a good talk to me, and has convinced me to stay, and besides, I have something to proove now and a new skin that kicks ass when its reuploaded.


}:)   I TOLD you that's what I thought you should do.  I'm glad you're staying. \o/

Reply #35 Top

If there are rules that contravene this

Rules?

Why should there be rules for one thing and not the other? And why can one rule be broken and not the other?

Rules. Hmmph. Apparently the rules don't apply or have changed. If you want to enjoy your promotion to Master, you apparently better plan on being beholden to folks other than the people who put you there. And you better be prepared to pucker (buy some Chapstick, you're gonna need it) up and to drink the Kool Aid.

It's stuff like this that just sucks the desire to grow, expand, and try harder right out of me. Why bother?!  When the folks who can and should intervene have first hand knowledge of all the petty-hissy-pitching-BS don't put a stop to it, what is the point of walking into those chopper blades?

Why don't we just hand the site over?! They are probably sitting, hunkered over their keyboards, giggling like the lil bitches from Bring It On, IM'ing each other with lil pats on the back.

Reply #36 Top

Well I think this discussion has probably gone as far as it should here in the forums.  I think it's time to send a PM or two to a few folks, which as a member of the community I have not only the right to but the responsiblity to. 

PoSmedley, I think your input would be useful also.  You probably know better whom to PM, but don't tell me, I have one or two folks in mind.

Reply #37 Top

Why PM?

Everything took place 'publicly'.

We're not talking about the black sheep uncle who likes little boys. We're talking about someone who has a bug up their ass and thinks it's okay to bully folks. Someone who is not afraid to do so publicly and take advantage of the system to meet their own petty little end. Someone who obviously feels superior in every way and thinks they can determine who will and who won't succeed all on their own without ever having to suffer any consequences. Someone who would throw a tantrum and half if it was done to them, but is so selfish all they care about is their immediate gratification and their warped sense of justice over an 'opinion'. An opinion!

Reply #39 Top

Kitty, I am so glad you are staying.  Running away just lets the bastards win!  You make good skins and good sense.  You belong here with your many friends.

Reply #40 Top

PoSmedley, I think I have said this before, you are turning into House.  :-"

So should we go and Thump us some Trolls? :troll: :banhammer: :O

Reply #41 Top

Quoting PoSmedley, reply 37
Someone who obviously feels superior in every way and thinks they can determine who will and who won't succeed all on their own without ever having to suffer any consequences.


Or...someone who feels inferior and is over-compensating and it comes off as superior.

The world would be a much better place if people would suspend all the judging, of both themselves and others.

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Reply #42 Top

PoSmedley, I think I have said this before, you are turning into House.

Reply #43 Top

I think I have said this before, you are turning into House.

No. House would get down to it and say....

'I don't care what anybody says, I care what they do.  So come on, I'll draw the enemy fire, you outflank them, get in there, get the bone marrow sample.'

So lets get down to it.

 

*Jafo, can I get that in an avatar? lmao Thats the funniest fucking pic I have seen in a while.

Reply #44 Top

Kitty, glad you are staying around.  Let me know if I can offer any assistance.

Reply #45 Top

Good news! :grin:

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Reply #46 Top

well since everyone is non-shilantly bashing vStyler or "MaxStyle" people for Kitty's faults, it was ME who said something about the skin...she used images from a website and i found them....she used images in her copy animation to profit on from a site that clearly said no redproduction of anything on the site without express persmission,...NOT PUBLIC DOMAIN images...and i have proof they are not public domain and then she even went on to say she drew it...there was no mention or permission or even credit, so if im the bad guy then so be it....i have nothing against Kitty and my wife loves her skins but i just think its messed up how it passed by the mods.....just as Po said "this wouldnt have happened 5 years ago" it would have been nipped in the bud the first time. On a different note about 5 years ago Satrdock wasn't handing out MASTER status for mediocrity.n When i first came to this site i thought i had somethign to work for and i have...then i upload a few SHITTY icons and BAM! i'm damn level up....did i deserve the level up? Probably not, i dont think i did, meanwhile we got top notch skinners here who are hanging in the backburners watching mediocre graphics artist get leveled up it seems every other month. i love this place and it has been a second home to me for the last 5 years but its getting rediculous....levels need to be given to those who's skills show Proffesionalism

i believe Karmagirl warned EVERYONE if this happened again what would happen. WTF is wrong with people.....is this a pity party/Daycare lets make everyone feel like SUPERS

 

 

so if there is going to be anymore bashing of the person who "DID THIS TO KITTY" then bash me

 

WEBSITE OF IMAGE, Disclaimer at bottom clearly says "No part of this site may be reproduced without express written permission from GM Holden Ltd."

http://www.holden.com.au/concept-cars/efijy

 

 IMO.. Master skinner should not use other peoples ideas or images and thats why I said something, it sets an awful example.

and before anyone says "NO ONE MENTIONED vStyler" ---- as if they could possibly have been talking about anyone else.

 

 

 

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Reply #47 Top

Like I said...an uncommon amount of attention and research seems to go into critiquing certain skins than other skins by the same author. And certain authors for that matter.

What goes around comes around.

I didn't catch all of what went down concerning 'this' skin. I would hope it didn't go down 'publicly' like you have done before in the forums and have been warned about. But I am sure if it did, the same folks had your back in the usual hurry.

and before anyone says "NO ONE MENTIONED vStyler" ---- as if they could possibly have been talking about anyone else.

Funny you mentioned him first.

Reply #48 Top

Glad to know that you're staying back and hope you never leeve :thumbsup: or else how would I get those great wb's !!

Reply #49 Top

Quoting DjiRate, reply 46
well since everyone is non-shilantly bashing vStyler or "MaxStyle" people for Kitty's faults, it was ME who said something about the skin...


DUDE!!  I thought you told me you weren't a toady.  I'm so disappointed in you.  I can't believe you actually went there.  A narc?  Really?

I know you're young, so you haven't had enough experience in life yet to realize, you have to be squeaky clean yourself before you go pointing fingers at people or it will come back to bite you in the ass.  Neither you NOR your overlord are that clean.

I'll give you credit...you've got balls for fessing up.  That at $1.49 will get you coffee a McDonalds.

Reply #50 Top

Woah you scared me there Vampothika! I love your work and would hate to see you go. Glad your stickin around!!  |-)