wireless hmm, arent really any pro game mice out there that are wireless.
Anyhow you would need to go to a pc parts store and try some mice out for weight and height, size.
I myself always recommend a wired mouse for gaming and a good mousepad.
I like the Logitech G9 it has two buttons at your thumb a sleeved cable, a great scroll wheel and dpi settings at your fingertips.
You can also change weight and shape on it for personalization, as it comes with 2 shells and weights.
Then again when it comes to mice im a logitech guy the quality and shape are just superior imo.
If you want a lowprofile gaming mouse check out the Razer collection most of them are really low.
If you want a light mouse check out MS gaming mice's they are often very light.
Do go for a laser mouse, the precision is better.
Most wireless mice is very heavy because of their batteries this isnt that good and in a long gaming session tires your hand out somewhat im my exp, but a mouse needs some weight for fine precision.
For mousepad, the Steelseries QCK pad is excellent, nice size and really thin 3mm.