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When Should Mom Stop

Sleeping and Showering with Boys

from WinCustomize Forums
My girlfriend and I are at odds on when should a parent start exihbiting healthy boundries to their children. She has 2 boys (10 and 13) and still showers with them and allows them to sleep with her. She's even described her oldest son's genitals as starting to look "Manly". The other day they were laughing in the background, I asked her what was so funny and she said they were laughing about rubbing soap on her ass in the shower. There's the situation. I'm concerned that if we try to take this any further I'm gonna be the "Bad Guy" that came along and took their space in the bed, shower, etc... Not to mention the kind of emotional damage it may induce. I know that the LAST thing I ever want to remember is what my mom looked like naked. I need some feedback....please. Thanks Edit: The reason I'm asking is because she thinks I'm whacked for being critical of the situation and It's about to cause a breakup. If I'm being wierd about this then I can swallow it and go on. BUT, I'm just convinced that there are going to be some major issues if she continues to ignore the suggestions. Issues that would be tough to deal with, jealousy, rebellion, all sorts of acting out, etc...
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Reply #77 from WinCustomize Forums Top
I have a 14 year old son, and this just gives me the creeps. I told him at 12 that I thought he was a bit to old for us to be kissing on the lips even if it was just a peck. I think you did the right thing Rad and I give you kudos for having the courage to do so.
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Reply #78 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Zubaz can make jokes? ....


Jafo....Look at Zubaz.com, then judge for yourself. Zebra pants. And you ask about jokes?

I think we need to alter Zubaz's avatar...and make it those pants. :SURPRISED:
Reply #79 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Zubaz just can't spell "jokes".


Angus: Zubaz just can't spell. Taake a look at WWW Link. What more nededs to be said?

:HOT: Not.
Reply #80 from WinCustomize Forums Top
You did the right thing, don't ever think otherwise. I hope the boys can get good counselling so that they are not left with the thought that any of this was their fault and can hopefully grow up normal.
Reply #81 from WinCustomize Forums Top
I think we need to alter Zubaz's avatar...and make it those pants.
The background of my avatar is Zubaz pants.  :)
Reply #82 from WinCustomize Forums Top
The background of my avatar is Zubaz pants.


Oy! It's worse than I thought! X-(
Reply #83 from WinCustomize Forums Top
lol, those pants. :LOL:
80`s beefcake comes to mind.

Radial, update man!!
Im missing eastenders for this :D
Cant believe a woman can allow herself to do this to her kids :NOTSURE:
Reply #84 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Zubaz just can't spell "jokes".Angus: Zubaz just can't spell. Taake a look at WWW Link. What more nededs to be said? Not.


Too cool Dr. J. :D  :CONGRAT: 
Reply #85 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Zubaz just can't spell


I beg to differ... he's fluent in both Pig Latin and Zubish. :d
Reply #86 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Zubaz just can't spellI beg to differ... he's fluent in both Pig Latin and Zubish.


LOL! We rag him too much. Really.

Naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah!

For xmas I'm getting him a spell checker. Named Starkers! ;)
Reply #87 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Whew.....not a peep yet today! I did talk to the counselor and she told me that she called and set up the appointment. However, she did tell me that the letter doesn't define exactly what the appointment is about. Just that a copy had also been sent to the DHS and if she chose not to respond that the DHS would respond with a follow-up visit. I'll keep you posted. RAD
Reply #88 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Oh also, you guys need to get off Zubaz's back! He can't help it! LOL RAD
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Reply #89 from WinCustomize Forums Top
For xmas I'm getting him a spell checker. Named Starkers!
Instaead of that, get me this instead.  it'd look great with teh Stardock earring AND would emabarrass my wife.
Oh also, you guys need to get off Zubaz's back! He can't help it!
Just one more example of RadialFX being a compassionate fiend.
Reply #90 from WinCustomize Forums Top
For xmas I'm getting him a spell checker. Named Starkers!


Oh no! :NOTSURE: :SURPRISED: Just don't think I could handle all the arguments....

"Er, Zubs, me old mate, that's not spelled right!"

"So waht! It lokks funnire dnoe in Zubish." :LOL:

it'd look great with teh Stardock earring AND would emabarrass my wife.


What???? :SURPRISED: Are you not satisfied with embarrassing her by looking like a Spinal Tap reject in those skin tight zebra skin pants, Gothic studded G-strings on the outside and knee-high stiletto boots with the Stardock logo inlays on the front??? ;p :d

Yup, I can see you having to go to the mall by yourself in the future. ;p
Reply #91 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Oh also, you guys need to get off Zubaz's back!


Yeah! You guys better be careful. One of these days you're going to log onto the WC home page and Zubaz will have taken over.



:LOL:
Reply #92 from WinCustomize Forums Top
those skin tight zebra skin pants, Gothic studded G-strings on the outside and knee-high stiletto boots with the Stardock logo inlays on the front??
Baby . .I go to 11.  Every.single. time.
Yeah! You guys better be careful. One of these days you're going to log onto the WC home page and Zubaz will have taken over.
Now that is funny as hell.
Reply #93 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Baby . .I go to 11. Every.single. time.


Really!!! Would have thought the volume would have been at least twice that... given the rather 'loud' gear you dress up in. :LOL:
Reply #94 from WinCustomize Forums Top
It's only there for when he needs that little extra, just a little more push to get him over the edge. Why not just make 10 the top........his go to 11! LOL
Reply #95 from WinCustomize Forums Top
So why go to 11?

" Cos ten is ten... and eleven... well it's just louder, innit!" ;)
Reply #96 from WinCustomize Forums Top
I have taken the Z.A. (Zubaz Anonymous) Pledge.
That's it. No matter how outrageous the grammar or spelling, no comment from me.
Aaron is one of the nicest folks around and I'm thinking that some folks might misinterpret what I write about his posts.

RadFX, Thanks for keeping us up to date. Sounds like your Counselor has a good way
of approaching this situation. Yeah, I would say goodbye and good luck to her. You'd always be wondering what she was doing with her kids and/or yours.

Proud of you, Rad. You did the right thing for all involved...maybe it'll take time for her to see that...until then, there are many other zip codes for you... ;) .

:CONGRAT:
Reply #97 from WinCustomize Forums Top

Aaron is one of the nicest folks around and I'm thinking that some folks might misinterpret what I write about his posts.

Oh,...he's OK...or in Zubish he's KO ....;)

Reply #98 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Oh no! X-( As I feared. Jafo has joined the Hive...assimilated! :SNIFF!:
Reply #99 from WinCustomize Forums Top
Oh no! As I feared. Jafo has joined the Hive.


I am Jafo of Borg... refusing to assimilate those zebra striped pants. ;)
Reply #100 from WinCustomize Forums Top
RadialFX being a compassionate fiend.


ZubaZ strikes again!Laughing 20