Oh my, where to begin? First of all, this seems to have evolved into a petty argument about Scotland and England. Who cares? Can we please get back to the original article? I really enjoyed it and thought it had a lot of good points.
"So, what's next......what if brothers wanted to marry, would you be okay with that? Or what if brother and sister wanted to marry? What if a man wants to legally have sex with a 4 year old girl, is that okay as well?"
You, like many other people against gay marriage, argue that it will be a slippery slope by automatically allowing other types of controversial marriages. This is NOT TRUE!!!! Other types of marriages are outlawed for a reason. Polygamy is illegal because it detracts from the rights of the women and spreads STDs. Marrying relatives is illegal because it causes hemophilia. Marrying 4 year olds is illegal because they are not considered adults in society and because marriage is consensual. 4 year olds are not capable of making life long decisions. I'm sure you know this, so your attempt to compare this to same sex marriage is pathetic. The point is, a government is supposed to protect the rights of all of its citizens. As you can clearly see, the types of marriages listed above take away people's rights. Same sex marriage gives people rights. I'm trying to make this as clear as possible to be sure you understand.
"Yes, gay marriage does "hurt" marriage."
How in the world does same sex marriage hurt marriage????? It doesn't! How does allowing two people who truly love each other to have a life long legal committment, no matter what gender, actually hurt marriage? You don't really give any reasons except proceeding to talk about tradition:
"Why should we allow something that was considered a mental disease just a few decades ago to be endorsed and promulgated in our society?"
"It redefines it for entire generations to come and pulls away from a standard of behavior and living that has existed ALWAYS."
First of all, because homosexuality is NOT a mental 'disease'. And second, who cares if marriage has always been between men and women? Change is not always a bad thing. What is the US had decided to keep using slavery because it had existed 'always'? I know this example seems a bit extreme when compared to marriage, but basically what you're saying is that changing the status quo is always a bad thing, regardless of how morally wrong the status quo is. This is one of the HUGE problems with the issue of same sex marriage. The reason so many people are against it is not because they find the arguments logical. It's because they look down on gay people and are afraid of changing our culture and allowing them to be our equals.
"The problem is that the Gay and Lesbian community wants to argue from a "fairness" standpoint, but don't like the other side of the coin when it is applied logically. Homosexuality is not right just because a few decide to start accepting it. Right is right and wrong is wrong. Charles Manson thinks he is right......Hitler thought he was right......would you side with them as well?"
What logical arguments can you give that homosexuality is wrong? Of course they argue is from a fairness standpoint. Equality is important. Its one of the things the US is founded on. Remember, those opposing same sex marriage are just as unhappy when they see the other side of things (although I can't say I've actually heard any GOOD arguments against homosexuality). Of course homosexuality is not right just because some people accept it! Its right because gay people deserve the same rights and level of respect that we have. As for equating these views to Hitlers..... this is not about moral relativism, which is what you are trying to argue. Hitler and Charles Manson murdered people. That's morally wrong. What the heck is morally wrong with allowing same sex marriage. Its morally worng to NOT legalize it.
Please wake up and realize that gay people are people too and that they deserve the rights that we have. Allowing them to marry will not in any way affect existing marriage. Remember that even if it did come at a cost to society, governments are supposed to do what is morally right. Abolishing slavery came at a huge cost. It hurt the economy and caused a very bloody war. But does anyone look back and say that we should have left things the way they were just because people are afraid of change?
~Molly