Have you ever spent a full year at the office without leaving or seeing your loved ones? |
No analogy or comparison is accurate in all its details.
My point is that the author of the article is trying to imply that wanting a job to be over with so I can go home is the same as not wanting to do the job, or not believing that the job should be done by me before I go home.
We know from personal experience that this is a false implication.
That is why I also pointed out that the article and the survey don't tell us what percentage of troops are committed to staying, even though they'd prefer to live in a happy world of flowers and rainbows and unicorns, where nothing bad ever happens and they are never required to leave their loved ones to go in harm's way.
I mean, you said it yourself: you and your husband's desire to not have him go to Iraq doesn't actually map to a desire to not do the job. It doesn't seem fair, somehow, that you should start by saying that my experiences can't help me to understand your situation, and then go on to agree with what my experiences had already told me.
I don't think it's fair of you to imply that people who have not been soldiers are incapable of understanding concepts like duty and sacrifice. It's not true, and acting like it is true will serve to isolate you from your fellow citizens, rather than deepening your relationships with them.