i love it when you call me names

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what’s YOUR definition of dirty ?

we humans love words. for a lot of reasons, not least of all that we no longer have the skills to communicate any other way. words are our means of conveying to others what we are thinking and feeling. and we have all had moments in our lives (albeit rarely) when words were not needed at all ...

... but for most of us, sex isn’t one of those moments. nor should it be.

as a teenager, the aural sexual images i collected from various media were based on filth. at the time, my fragile self-esteem couldn’t conceive of ever enjoying being called a whore ... but i hadn’t counted on one day being a secure woman in love and having my first real orgasm triggered by that very event.

call it naiveté, but i managed to avoid the “post-coital analysis/partner attack” following such utterances and instead landed squarely in “free and complete sexual expression is incredible” territory.

where i remain to this day. without a single regret. come on in (pardon the pun). the water is fine.
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Well, I'm glad I read that. My fears are allayed.

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~Dan
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welcome back dan. i'm glad you're here. thanks for your comment, i appreciate it. ;). mig XX
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The ability to feel the water is fine is dependant on how much water you want to feel. Great to hear that the landscape has changed for you in terms of sexual freedom and pleasure however the context of your environment also changed which is been one of the main contributors to your new found and loved feelings, that is, the sexual path we take as teenagers is far different and will never compare to the path we take when its walked we the one we have chosen over all those who were, are and will be.
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blah on you dean ! ... go ahead and tell anyone who might be reading this that you knew me when i was all screwed up about sex ... pardon the pun ... and yes, you were right all along: sex, (as i know it now from within the context of an emotionally balanced and committed relationship), is better and more satisfying than ever.

... but i am certain you must be wrong about SOMETHING ... and i will find out what it is ... hehe.