WoW is fun, WoW sucks!

An un-healty addiction.

Don't get me wrong, I like World of Warcraft, I play it when I can. Or rather, I play it when I have nothing better to do. I also hate WoW, I hate the fact that it consumes the time of many of my friends so much so that they neglect everything else around them. I'm not talking about a neglect in the form of a missed meeting here or that they forgot something there. I talk about when they forget their own lives and the people around them.

I don't know if any of you have heard it before, but many of you have serious problems. This problem is called an addiction. Addiction is an uncontrollable compulsion to repeat a behavior regardless of its consequences. And this sort of behaviour ruins lives. An addiction is not limited to alcohol, smoking or drugs, it can be many things in life, and for many of you it's most likely World of Warcraft.

Just to test how strong your addiction is, try and not play WoW for a week. I dare you, one week of abstinence, one week of not login on. One week of doing something other then focus your life around WoW, one week of not thinking or talking about your favorite game. If you can go that long, then you're surely not an addict, just a misguided individual who has nothing better to do if you continue to let it control you.

Yes, I do understand that many of you find the game social, seeing as many of your friends play it aswell. But that does not mean it's not an addiction.

This all might seem harsh to many, but I only say it because I care for your lives.
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Reply #1 Top

Wow is not bad, I just hate the fact that you have to team up with people to really get the best of the End Game.
As an older player I can't bring myself to group up with 13yr olds to do high level instances.

UO was better in that aspect.
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The addictive aspect of WOW or anyother MMORPG has much less to do with the game than the personality of the addicts... These folks would be addicted to something like this no matter what. Just stop by any RP shop or Games Workshop and you will see the very specimens of which I speak. Or just look around JU... this too is a sort of MMORPG.
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Excellent post KBV!

I am a computer game addict. It is REALLY hard to not play. I got into the original Ultima Online when it was the first MMORPG on the market. I called in sick for work some days because I played UO until 5am or later. In the end, I had a moment of clarity and gave the game account away to someone and asked them to destroy the account if they didn't like the game - I didn't want it back. I can never allow myself to play another MMORPG again, they are just TOO addictive for me.

I made another error in judgment when the Star Wars Galaxies game first came out: I bought a copy as a birthday gift for a friend. Now he and his wife have 4 ACCOUNTS! I should have just bought them cocaine or heroin, at least there are treatment facilities for drugs. I never see my friend anymore because he is hopelessly addicted to that game. His wife talks like the people she meets in the game are more real that people she sees face-to-face.

MMORPGs are very dangerous to people with a certain type of personality. I am one of those people. I have to keep away from them at all costs. I now limit myself to games like GalCiv (which I can save and turn off whenever I want) and Counter-Strike (with short, timed game rounds).

- Proud Canadian
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I really believe that the thing that pushes most people back to the game is the social interaction that you mention. For most of the long term/hardcore players in MMOs it isn't the loot (which is a nice bonus) but instead the friendship or comradery of playing with the guild. I personally feel that by missing out on numerous raids in a row or things of that nature that I let them down in some capacity. I also manage to keep my life around me and normal (although perhaps I need more sleep) but perhaps thats because I play the game with my GF, so we can just go out on dates in-game
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I'm more than 3 weeks WoW free.
Reply #6 Top
Im like 10 hours haha.
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In a couple of weeks my brother is going down to London to meet about 10 members of his EVE-Online Corporation. These guys chat to each other using teamspeak everyday and many of them have been doing so for well over a year. I think that's great, for them its no different than talking to a friend on the phone.
Reply #8 Top
That's cool.   Reminds me, I need to cancel my WoW subscription....
Reply #9 Top
My ATR Guild had a huge party in Phili, in my house...It was great.
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Just like to point out that MMORPGs are not the only game that ppl can get hopelessly addicted to and just because you can stop and save dosnt mean that your going to

as my name suggests im a civ 3 junkie and proud of it though i do make time for other things that are important in life (like school) i must admit that i spend an inoridinate amount of time on civ3 rome total war and any other RTS or turn based strategy game that i can get my hands on (though im rather disapointed in myself that i havent heard of the gal civ series till i saw that preveiw for gal civ 2 on gamespot )

and its not just me that gets sddicted to these games (i hope at least) ive heard stories at school how the parents of kids would kick there sons or daughters off the computer at 12 in the mourning so that they can start playing there own civ 3 game till the sun comes up

speaking of civilization addictions if you havent seen this hilarious trailer for civ 4 it definently worth watching

Link
Reply #11 Top
Yep, games like that really are addictive. I've heard of a lot of people sucked into WoW. My own hubby would rather do nothing with his free time than play computer games, but

I forbid him to let games dominate his free time.

I let him play only when all the work is done, and the baby is asleep, or the day is over. JU is addictive too...I've been off it pretty much all summer; right now I'm having a sleepless night. As I clicked over to JU I felt my stomach mildly churn. Oh no, not the JU addiction again. I'm clean though. I'm going back to bed now.
Reply #12 Top
I consider myself a hardcore gamer, but I can't really get addicted to just one game. I've tried MMOs like City of Heroes and Wow but I can't stay with them for long, one part due to the price, 2nd I get really bored playing the same thing day in and day out. Which is why my gaming collection goes from games like Rome Total war, to Katamari damacy, to even Virtua Fighter 4 evo.
Reply #13 Top
the same thing usually happens with me it comes in stages like id only play RTW for a week then as i got bored id switch to civ 3 and as that came old id go back to starcraft and so on and so forth

as of right now i really havnt gotten a game were id just do that for months on end but then again i really havent played mmorpgs that much so u never know...
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Here KBV i have a web site for you, think you'll get along with them just fine.

http://www.landoverbaptist.org/news0105/wow.html
Reply #15 Top
I also can't play the samething over and over but I have been able to play certain games for alone time. I have been playing WoW since its release and played Phantasy Star Online for along time as well. I also still play Warcraft III: TFT every once in awhile also. The way I keep my hardcore gaming going is to simply throw other games into the mix. Right now I am playing about 5 games at once, of varying types. Most of the games are games you just beat and they offer little replayability so I won't continue on with the indefinitley. Works for me.
Reply #16 Top
I consider this as anything immersing. Drugs also have added physiological dependence, but it doesn't mean that games aren't addictive just has drugs have psychological dependence.

Solutions:
But I think that a game which could assure players that it will have less such secundary effects would win some customers. A MMORPG which upgrades your player based on how wise your moves generally are instead of "who did the most" for example. Or a turn-based strategy game with a "end the game in 30 minutes" timer or whattever.

MOO3 had a timer included in one of the patches. Civ4 will let the possibility to play shorter games. Society wont simply be "more time = more development". Etc.
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Since this has been a dead summer in terms of really good gaming for me. I've spent my time split between playing a majhong game, Rome Tw, and as many online downloadable games I can get my hands on
Reply #18 Top
WoW involved too much camping and reliability on getting in a GOOD group for me. This missions in it sucked hardcore....

Collection missions where you had to collect large amount of drops in player-infested areas....
Boss-kill missions where you had to fight through hoards of elite mobs that will spawn on top of you as soon as you get to the boss....
Fetch missions......

That is what all the game involved for me. Sure I knew PVP would be fun but I couldn't get pact the EQ aspects of the game. I wish SWG wasn't ruined in its combat patch otherwise i would still be playing that trash game. IMO ALL MMORPGS suck, however I have to play at least one. So far not one that i've tried has been good...

Right now i'm thinking of playing EVE Online but I heard that its more of the same as welll.

"MOO3 had a timer"

The timer in MOO3 was the only useful point in the game, lol.
Reply #19 Top
I played WoW. I stopped playing 2 weeks before my first paid month ran out.

But I also played a heckuva lot while I was playing.

Is that addiction?
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IMO ALL MMORPGS suck, however I have to play at least one. So far not one that i've tried has been good...


Why do you hve to play at least one? If you don't like the genre don't play it.
Reply #21 Top
/shrug

the purpose of games is to entertain and to consume your spare time. of course if a game is really great it is very easy to forget about the real world. its a question of discipline. ppl have to realize that escaping the real world and beeing part of a fantasy world is nice and relaxing, however sooner or later real life will come knock at your door and you will have to deal with your problems and responsibilities... so better log out earlier and get some work done. afterall the gaming experience is much better if you dont know you actually have this and that to do and shouldnt play really.

I played Jumpgate, EVE, Shattered Galaxy, beta tested alot of stuff (Lineage2, EQ2...) and am playing Dark Age of Camelot since 2001. I had a short DAoC break while I was playing WoW. went to level 60 realized the pvp,pvp-reward and battleground system sucked and beside that there is only EQ-ing through 20-40 ppl instanced dungeons for item-farming left so I canceled and went back to DAoC which still has the best PvP on the market.

the key to non-addicted playing of MMOGs is to realized that if you play 24/7 you may achieve something in the game fast, but afterall you can achieve the very same over a longer period while not playing so much per day. if you rushed to the maximum level, grinded and farmed for the best possible equipment, did everything possible, what will be left to do for you? nothing, unless an expansion comes along. therewhile you probably lost your job, your friends, your wife etc.

so MMOGs arent a problem if you just take your time. whatever you could achieve today in the game can always be achieved later so instead going out with friends may be a better activity for this evening.
power gaming takes away alot of fun too. ^^
Reply #22 Top
Well...U know what? Since Starcraft I have never ever played any Blzzard product!
Why? Because of Warcraft III...I dont know what the People found in that thing!
I was sooooo bored from the beginning of the game that I have only played it the first four or five missions.
Yes the Vids are great and the grapics were fine, but thats not all...I need suspense, I need the "je ne sais quois!"(what the French use to say)...and thats whats missing in the Blizzard games the last time! Its allways the same....even in WOW..click on your chracter/Units...click on the map to move...click, click, click to battle enemy....click, click,click, click,click, click,click, click,click, click,click, click,click, click,click, click,click, click,click, click,click, click,click, click,click, click,click, click,click, click,click, click,click, click,click, click, till he is beaten! BOOOOOOORING!! I just dont understand, whats so special about it! gimme a game like rise of nations, tomb raider or galciv for example and I am in my own universe (at least till my baby is awake or my fiance wants me to clean the dishes! )
I hope i didnt upset anyone here, but this is my opinion! Blizzard lost me as a fan loooong ago! I know that no ones cares about it, but thats life!
See YA!!
Reply #23 Top
A MMORPG which upgrades your player based on how wise your moves generally are instead of "who did the most"


You mean like Ultima Online was before they turned it into another crappy game that's all about killing lot of monsters.... UO was the wild WILD West of online gaming. If you were a newbie your heart just pounded as you stepped out of protection of the guards. Not that the guardzone was safe either. There were pleanty of dangers for an uneducated poor newbie. Such as poisoned food left lying around. Or the unsuspecting (Trapped)crates which blew you up when you dared to peek inside. All those hazards were brought to you courtesy of your griefing fellow players. Who took satisfaction in robbing the weak and unwise adventurers of their valuables and their life.

When I started playing that game I was killed constantly, up to 10 tiems a day, usually by other players. Thous sometimes my own ignorance caused my demise. I wont even mention the deaths I suffered at the hands of the monsters Who woudl suspect a spider would poison me? I dont even know how I made it through the initial months. Thou I did wise up. Spending my first weeks dividing time between mining (I didnt plan on being a miner, I just herd a rumor it made you stronger), dying to weak monsters like skeletons, and ofcourse walkign around the world as a ghost, I quickly absorbed my surroundings. Within 6 months I was the one doing some of the kicking. By years end. I did most of it. Eventually pretty much all of it. Sadly by that time the game has changed so much. Fighting whole guilds by myself or with a partner, I started to wonder how long before it would be unplayable? Every patch seemed like a step closer to infinity. With each patch they robbed the advantage the wise player had over the dumb player who just plays too much or a horde of clueless newbies. Eventually I just threw in the towel, it jsut wasnt worth it.

Sorry for the endless ramblings, but I couldnt stop writing UO was the best turned worst game I have ever played! All the friends I made while playing I keep in contact with (Well those that are around the net anyway). Many of them were from other countries. We sometiems run into eachother in strange other games, have a few laughs and see which oen fo us quits the current game first (None of em messure up in the end).
Reply #24 Top
People. I am 15 and I was once a gaming addict, just a few months ago. I would play games for over 16 hours a day someday... Staying up until 9am, or more. I wasn't addicted to WoW but I was to Counter-Strike: Source. I just couldn't stop playing, it was consuming my whole life. So believe me, no matter what you think, it's better in "RL" [Real Life].

And I used to think that it was important how good I was. But newsflash - NOBODY CARES.

I now KNOW that there's always something better to do than play video games, and I fucking HATE WoW because it has just taken one of my favourite friends away :(

SO FUCKING LISTEN. THERE IS WAY BETTER THINGS. DO NOT LET IT CONSUME YOUR LIFE.