Forbidden words?

Any words you cringe at?

So I don't think there are any specific words that make my hair stand on end. But a few of my friends (all who happen to be girls) have a number of different words they can't stand hearing. One in particular hates the words "hump," "globalization," and the expressions "f__k your brains out."

I have some adversion to hearing people referred to as "pussies," or "fags" but the words themselves in other contexts don't bother me at all, in fact, I myself may even use them. I only dislike particular vocabularly sets. Specifically when people use a very large, seemingly articulate vocabulary who either don't use it correctly, far to often, or use completely archaeic words in place of perfectly useful modern ones. Maybe they don't want all the word power the studied so intently in 11th grade to go to waste. But seriously, just let it go. I feel like I can contribute to an intelligent conversation without having to pass our thesauruses (spell check) or dictionaries in order for people to understand what I'm trying to say. There's nothing more rude than trying to intimidate people with your word choices.
So I thought I'd try and revive this thread because I have further discussed this with a number of people and it appears that more and more have hang-ups about certain words than I ever realized. One girl last night told me she has a great aversion to hearing "in essence" but suggests this has to do with listening to a lecture in which a woman said this nearly every sentence. I suppose it's kind of like how many get so badly sick drunk off of a particular kind of alcohol and swear off the stuff for the rest of their lives. Maybe that's why vodka and I don't get along very well.
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I agree with you that it is pathetic to try and intimidate people with large words, but I'm guilty of it. Not good at it, mind you. :) I like your point of view. That P word you mentioned bothers me alot by the way. It's pretty much the only one though; I like to think I'm not so weak that words have a power over me.

Trinitie
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I hate the words "breasts" and "panties". They are both so stupid and just saying them is stupid. Seriously, right now, say them both out loud. Now which one is worse?
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I know a lot of girls that hate the word "panties," I suppose I refrain from it as well just because "underwear" is more egalitarian. So what is your replacement word of choice for breasts?
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I hate the word panties too, what's the deal?

Trinitie
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My boss hates the following words, "ointment," "moist," and "extrude." What's with these women?
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MOIST... yeah it sounds weird and unhygienic for me im not sure why.
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breasts, ohhh, stupid word. I would replace it with chest, bust or even boobs!
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Boobs sounds to kidlike, but maybe that's the problem. Seems a lot of women aren't attracted to the actual words for their anatomy. Is this because they're uncomfortable with the topic itself or what gives?
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there's that word for a woman...ends in U-N-T...


that word is of course...


"aunt".
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I remember at the Vagina Monlogues where they were trying to "take back the word cunt." I'm neither a woman, nor opposed to the word, but I wonder how many women would refer to their own anatomy in such a fashion.
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I would suggest "lady pillows" for breasts! Don't ask...

I actually hate hearing the word "pack". Again, don't ask.

How about a combination - moist gussett? Nice thought!
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"used"...I hate the word "used", combine that with "moist" and my brain gets spasms.
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You hate the word "used?" Like, in all contexts? For example "Hi Gary, do you know how to use the Turbo Tax software?" "Well I sure do Steven, I've USED it many times before."

This sentence bothers you? Sorry if I caused a spasm.