Oral Sex Safe and Not Really Sex, Say U.S. Teens

Oooooooh boy. It seems our children really do or have learned from past leaders. In this case, on Bubba Clinton would seem to have been the educator.

Read on.

(From Reuters, found on My Way News, via DrudgeReport.com)


Oral Sex Safe and Not Really Sex, Say U.S. Teens


Apr 4, 10:33 AM (ET)



CHICAGO (Reuters) - One in five U.S. teenagers say they have engaged in oral sex, an activity that some adolescents view as not sex at all and certainly less risky than intercourse, a report released Monday said.
The survey of 580 children with a mean age of 14-1/2 found 20 percent said they had engaged in oral sex, compared to 14 percent who said they had engaged in sexual intercourse.
In addition, one-third of the multi-ethnic 9th graders surveyed said they intended to have oral sex within the next six months and nearly one-fourth planned to have intercourse during the period. It was more common for boys to have performed oral sex on girls than vice versa, the report said.
Previous studies and numerous campaigns aimed at deterring teenaged sex have focused on intercourse, but as many as half of adolescents experience oral sex first, the report said.
The risk of transmitting infections, including HIV, is significantly less with oral sex than with intercourse but is likely underestimated by teenagers, said the report in the journal Pediatrics.
Youngsters who engage in oral sex rarely used condoms or dental dams, even though herpes, hepatitis, gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis as well as the virus that causes AIDS can all be transmitted orally, it added.
"Given the suggestion that adolescents do not view oral sex as sex and see oral sex as a way of preserving their virginity while still gaining intimacy and sexual pleasure, they are likely to interpret sexual health messages as referring to vaginal sex," wrote lead author Bonnie Halpern-Felsher, a pediatrician at the University of California, San Francisco.
"Adolescents also believed that oral sex is more acceptable than vaginal sex for adolescents their own age in both dating and non-dating situations, oral sex is less of a threat to their values and beliefs, and more of their peers will have oral sex than vaginal sex in the near future," she wrote.




So we have yet more proof we are raising a generation of idiots, or at least ill-informed and under-educated children in the specific area of sexual education.

Look, I'm no prude. Far from it actually. For the most part, what happens in the bedroom of a group of consenting adults (and possibly even young adults, but I would mature ones at that) is between those individuals, unless one side or the other is being abused.

With that said, it seems obvious, and this report confirms, that our children are running around under-informed and ill-prepared for the dangers of having sex. I don't know that I want the sex education programs that Montgomery County Maryland (as an example, see prior articles) is proposing and implementing (that program seems far too liberal, up to and including tacit condoning and promoting of gay sex acts and more) but something has to be done.

We can't have our children running around thinking that they can engage in sex acts without consequences, or, in the ultimate Bill Clinton mode, feeling that "oral" sex is not sex at all.

These kids must be told what they are thinking is wrong, and they must understand the information they are given. We can't afford to waste our most precious resources (our children) to lives complicated with STDs, teen pregnancy or other issues that come from engaging in sex before being educated enough and mature enough to understand the consequences.
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"Given the suggestion that adolescents do not view oral sex as sex and see oral sex as a way of preserving their virginity while still gaining intimacy and sexual pleasure, they are likely to interpret sexual health messages as referring to vaginal sex,"

bill maher characterized this as 'thinking outside the box'. 

Reply #2 Top
go away you puritan

people like you make me sick

let's make people feel all dirty for being intimate

screw you, buddy, you have zero clue
Reply #3 Top
Myrr - who is your comment in response to?

I'm confused as to if you are calling me a puritan or if you are saying I'd be trying to make someone feel dirty for being intimate.

Just to clarify again, what consenting adults or mature individuals do in their own time and space is their own business. Not the governments, and not the neighbors.

But with that said, parents have a vested interest in the well being of their children, and having children running around with the impression that oral sex isn't sex, and oral sex won't potentially lead to STDs can be dead wrong.

We owe our offspring a better education than that, so that they don't face these issues uninformed. With that said, I've seen clips from the curriculum that is being taught in Montgomery County Maryland, and in Northern Virginia. It could be descriped as soft core pornography in many cases, or child pornography in other areas. A perky young lady, who looks even younger, was picked to star in the video because she seemed to be someone that could relate easily to the teen target audience -- including 10 and 11 year old children. The matter of fact speech she gives in the narration covers about 20 seconds of discussion saying abstinence is the best policy, then gives about 4 minutes worth of information telling the audience that gay sex is a wonderful thing, and is completely normal. Somewhere in the middle of things is a long discussion about how to use a condom, including a demonstration involving a cucumber or a banana.

On the one hand, it's a great educational tool. The young lady that was choosen is most definitely someone that a teen boy could relate to (as well as just about any other male), but the normalization of all types of sexual activity, including providing complete and detailed instructions to the children is not necessarily something I'm comfortable with.

You know, in many ways I'm reminded of the old joke about letting kids learn from Playboy / Penthouse like the prior generation did. It seemed so much less objectionable (though it certainly objectified women, and left people under-informed).

I'd like to see good educational materials used that are less objectionable, and do a better job of informing while stressing abstinence and more of the potential dangers of having sex period. I'm not talking reefer madness style over-hyped materials, and I'm not talking about Ben Stein style droning clinical style either. We need a happy medium that doesn't send our children out too quickly in seek of becoming happy.
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Just the name alone says it all.

Oral Sex

Well damn the second word is sex so it must be sex, right? Or is the second word silent like you know the word know has a silent k, but than the silent k is pronounced in the word that rhymes with bunt, go figure. (side note yes I know the word that rhymes with bunt is spelled with a C but I did not C reason to take away from the K joke, K?)

I just like how the UCMJ has a listing that makes a law against oral and anal sex plus allows no proper sex with animals (as opposed to improper sex with animals).
Talk about a Puritan Military, eh?

Though who really was to know that Private X (not me, seriously) was having sex with Female Private Y (not a girl I knew or had sexual relations with, seriously) improperly? Is there a Sex Police in the military? No, but maybe that is a secret job of CID, anyways I think I type enough off-topic but not really off topic so toodles (or is it tootles)!!

- Grim X (no relation to Private X, seriously)