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Uhm *cough* i've got a question *cough*

from JoeUser Forums
Alright i'll just be blunt, so sissies get out before it's too late!!!

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Y'all gone? Alright.

What's up with men who fantasize about anal sex?? And are there women who even enjoy it?

Okay, i've never tried it! But whenever i hang out with my guy friends, when they get all drunk up and dirrrty, all that pops to their mind is anal sex, and WHY ON EARTH WOMEN DONT WANT TO DO IT?

So i'm like dudes, can you imagine someone sticking your butt with a penis? Well neither do we.. Okay there are exceptions, like my friend Clinton who CAN imagine getting his poo hole sticked with a penis, lol, but that would be coz his gay... NOW, i've never had this conversation with girls, but i'm not sure they would want to get to it.

Doesnt it hurt like hell??

Just a random thought like that. But i wont be surprised if no one answers.
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Reply #26 from JoeUser Forums Top
little whip, you rock girlfriend! Thanks for the info, i really never had any idea about all that (call me stupid! )

foreverserenity, a thread about masturbation? Oh yeah! Haha! At first I was like 'i never wrote a thread about masturbation', hehe. Anyway, yep, the pain factor is what i thought kept most of women uninterested. But like you see, the ones that have tried it outnumber us two! lol. So i guess it's not so bad when done properly?

Moderateman, haha, that was a good one!

Helix, I think you're right. I just need to mentally prepare myself, or something like that, to make it a pleasurable experience? But yeah, i think its all in our head.

Dr Guy, haha, you know what that is actually a very interesting question! Hehe, anyone who can come up to an answer for that, feel free, you're welcome!
Reply #27 from JoeUser Forums Top
Basically, just to sum it up.. it's the pleasure derived by causing pleasure.

Yeah i know what you mean. It's like when I said that girls fake the pleasure during anal sex because it's a huge turn on for the guys (to think that they're giving the girls pleasure). So yeah they could actually get turned on because the male partner is enjoyng it so much. So it becomes a vicious circle (in a good way!). Mmm, i'm not sure i've made myself clear.
But to sum it up, i agree with you Helix
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Reply #28 from JoeUser Forums Top
I always miss the good articles! Thanks for LW for pointing this one out on her thread.

Hmm IG.. well being gay I have to tell you that well this may come as a major shock to people but hmm well anal sex isnt that big a deal. You see for men having sex with men it might be a different sensation as with what LW pointed out.. the prostate gland is stimulated by puttin your finger up a guys butt.. so when you put a dick up there.. well the stimulation is greater.

Personally though I find it uncomfortable unless the person doing it is doing it right, and it's gotta be done right, otherwise youll have hell to pay for in the coming days.

Most important thing though... and this might gross you out.. is that if your gonna try doing this you gotta..and I mean gotta.. be clean. Nothing worse than a chocolate soldier! eeewwwwwwwwww!
Reply #29 from JoeUser Forums Top
Phoenix!!! At last you're here!! hehe

Thanks for your insight on the thread! At last a guy who says it!

This blog wont be helpful now that there's this thing going on with D, but it's still knowledge in storage.

Nothing worse than a chocolate soldier! eeewwwwwwwwww!

OH YUCKKKK!!!! hahahahahahaha!!!!
Reply #30 from JoeUser Forums Top
most of what I was gonna say would have closely mirrored what LW already wrote... not to mention the fact that I'm about two or three weeks behind on this thread. I guess I want to offer another male's opinion anyway, just cause I like to hear myself talk. (at least i can admit it)... I thought about writing my own article about this topic, but then i remembered that my aunt reads my stuff, so I decided against it.

The woman having a little fear and apprehension about anal sex is normal... Most women will feel this way. That's why its mega-important for the man to be understanding and patient, as many of the ladies have already said. I remember reading (in Maxim or Cosmo?) a couple years ago that college educated women are more likely to engage in anal sex than their less educated counterparts. The logic that supports this claim is obvious. The more educated, mature, and experienced the woman is, the more likely she is to be willing to try it... Then the ball lands in the man's court to make sure he doesn't make her first experience a 'shitty' one.

Men, single and married alike get tired of having the same ole sex all the time. Women must get tired of it too... hence the reasons why we have S&M, role playing, swingers clubs, anal sex, oral sex, bisexuals, strip clubs, XXX shops, novelty stores, etc. A woman might think, "What can we do to spice it up?" "what can we do on this trip to the islands that will make us remember this night forever?" "Oh yeah, i can let him stick it in my ass!"

anyhoo, a lot of it depends on the woman, her sense of adventure, and her feelings toward the man. If she's really in love w/ the guy, and really feels loved by him, then it's something she may well want to share w/ him, even if she told 3 other boyfriends 'no' in the past. Ultimately she has to make the call, and the man should respect her decision. I'm not a big fan of these guys who keep 'working on' their wives/girlfriends over the years to convince them to try a threesome, anal sex, or to get the girl to swallow. I say just throw it out there that it's something you're interested in and then let it go. If and when the time is right she'll let you know.

I could share some stories about the girls that let me ride the Hershey Highway, but y'all prolly don't want to hear about 'em... LW already held class on the subject, but just to re-iterate guys, always take it slow! Use lube, but not so much lube that it takes her an hour to clean it all off. Have her drink a couple glasses of wine if she's into that kind of thing, just to help her loosen up. (if she agrees to try anal ahead of time)... make sure you're good n horny! there's nothing worse than having a hot horny chick ready to try anal sex and then you can't keep it hard enough! start with either a small toy or your finger to help her poop chute loosen up. Then if and when you get to the part about putting your shaft in there, start w/ just the tip and wait for her brown eye to accept that before you try n slide any further. I could continue, but you get the idea... go slow, and be willing to stop at a moment's notice if she gets uncomfortable! oh yeah, and COMMUNICATE! if the two of you can't talk about it openly, then you prob'ly don't need to be doing it.

that's my .02
Reply #31 from JoeUser Forums Top
Damn!!!! How in the hell did I miss this!?! Gooollee, SHAZAMMM. I gotta go take a shower...