DIY Fabric Softener
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DIY Fabric Softener
2 C Vinegar
12 oz your favorite smelling conditioner (can be the cheap stuff)
6 C Water
Mix this all together and use with a downy ball. 1/4 c or so per load. Experiment and see what works best for your family! The vinegar smell goes away once it's all dry.