They say "she dressed provocatively" in the USA too... it just ends with a rapist getting a reduced sentence rather then the woman stoned to death.
I cannot imagine why a rapist should get a reduced sentence because of how the victim dressed. After all, it's the act of raping her that was the crime, not his increasing lust.
I do support the idea that, for example, a peeping tom should be punished less (or not at all) because of what the woman does. In that case, it is not the act (the peeping) that is the crime, but the combination of act and circumstances, I'd say.
As for the second point, you know the difference between Britain and Iran, right?
In Britain, women get stoned first, then commit adultery.
oh, and as for what you said about "if the victims are jews its just blaming jews"... yes, but jews was just a type of victims to be blamed... women can be blamed for being raped. the "rich" for being robbed, and so on.
Still unconvinced. In all these cases people blame the victims not because they are victims but for other reasons.
You blame the perpetrator because he is the perpetrator. Society is blamed because it is society and is thus present and can be blamed. Antisemites blame Jews because they are Jews. So in order to fit here, victims would have to blamed because they are victims. But that's just never the case.
Jewish victims are blamed not because they are victims but because they are Jews. Non-Jewish victims wouldn't be blamed. Non-victim Jews would be blamed.
Women are blamed for being rape victims because they are women. But that's not general enough because it simply isn't universal. (Prejudice against women is universal, but this particular example isn't.) The justice system does not blame ALL women for one rape and nor would it blame ALL victims for crimes. It's the combination of woman and victim that takes the blame. So this falls under "situation".
Blaming the "rich" is an extension of blaming the Jews. You will usually find that those who blame the rich pretty much equate rich people with Jewish people and rarely blame the non-Jewish rich (and if they do, they do it because of their similarity to the Jewish rich).
Lenin, for example, blamed rich people for Russia's problem (and he had a point), but he specifically didn't blame the Jews. He was a radical "society, perpetrator, Jews" person. I count anti-establishment opinions as blaming society or the situation.