Cannot join my own games

Is that happening immediately when you try to host or are you aborting and trying to join it before it drops off the list?

I think it was a leftover game he tried to join. I could be wrong though.

I hosted a game, the lobby froze, and I restarted Demigod. My lobby was still there and people had the option to join. Almost every time I host a game, if a player leaves the lobby there is a chance it will crash.