YO!

practice single player before going online so you're not stuck reading abilities during the game.

try not to die as it gives the other team a big advantage and pisses off your team mates

set up or join games making it clear that you're new (e.g., "noob only game") until you're more comfortable against non-AI

communicate during the game and help your team mates

gloss over the strats forum and get to know one or two demigods well (sticky post is quite helpfull)

and most importantly have fun and don't pay heed to those that rage/abuse; most people are quite nice

It might also be helpful to point out which game you are playing, as the off topic forums spread through many of Stardock's forums.

yeah. what game are you referring to? 

anyways, welcome to the forums. good to know you are enjoying the game. 

LOL my bad guys.. I had no clue this forum was spread out. I'm playin sins of a solar empire