bloody text icon thing to MYSELF

Have you changed your username? If so, that causes this issue... It's been well known for a few months.

yea i did, but i cant fix it i have tired alot of things

You have to change it back to your original username...

ive tried everything, even renstalled the game, doesnt fix

Revert your screen name to your original, whatever iti s.

DO NOT CHANGE ANYTHING.

Let it sit there until the servers update at midnight EST.

???

It's fixed.

If not, let it sit alone for another 24 hours.

done, all i can do now is pray.. thank you for your help

Karma is a bitch,  now I am having this issue, though it is with someone else.

Turns out if they send you a message and then they change their username it won't go away... trying to get them to change back for a day and see if that fixes it. Will post here with results.

Not sure there is a clean fix for this yet, but hopefully with the new overlay they're taking a look at it.  One things for sure, if you ever see all the messages frozen on frogboy's screenshots, you'll know the issue is well known.

frogboy has this problem? wtf?

OMFG this is fucking gay, now 2 POP UP! there both to ME the only difference is that one has a lowercase W. fuck this shit, im boycotting this game till this bullshit is fixed.

Chill. :)  Raise a ticket with Stardock at the stardock website.  Relax.  Have a drink. 

il have a drink... OF LEMONADE.