Oh yeah, I've tried all the suggestions including the /proxyserveronly switch, re-setting the router, checking my speednet connection. C'mon guys, you know it's not a problem on *my* end lol.
It's not on your end? Then where is the problem coming from? Pretty much everyone is playing online fine. Are you saying that Gas Powered Games has code in there to single you out?
What got me motivated to speak up was the messages from the devs stating that they were taking time off and that new AI code was coming. This signals to me that they feel their work on the problems is done.
This statement here signals to me that you're a horrible miserable SOB. What cave have you been in? They've been working non stop on this stuff. Oh snap, they didn't work through Memorial day for the fringe of people who have F'd up connections.
You know another problem with your post? It's full of shit.
http://pantheon.demigodthegame.com/games/player/40464/
There are your stats. People can look up that you've been playing plenty of games. Hell, you have a 3 on 3 game today.