Why Do You/I Still Love Her/Him...

Cos she goes to work at a real job while I sit home and skin.

Superman...sometimes you have to put the past into a little, cherished part of your heart and though it's difficult realize it is over and it's time to move on. Love isn't love when it's one sided. That's obsession and it's not healthy, grasshopper.

Start meeting some new people....there are so many.

And get some mosquito netting. I hear Ted Turner has some...

Look at it this way:

Once in a lifetime you meet someone and you fall so deeply in love that you are convinced that you were lovers in a prior incarnation.

After two weeks together you realize why you haven't kept in touch for 2,000 years.

Quite frankly, I'm not all together sure I know what love is (in the romantic sense that you are speaking).  I THOUGHT I knew what love was when I was superman's age, and felt the same thing he's feeling...pined for a boy I knew for 3 months, and it took 3 years to get over.  In retrospect, I had no clue who that guy was, and everything I loved about him was something I attributed to him in my mind, not necessarily something he actually possessed.  In short, I was infatuated with a fantasy I concocted myself.  Had he not broken it off with me, I wouldn't be half the woman I am today, I wouldn't have experienced a majority of the things I've experienced, wouldn't have seen the places I've seen, lived in the places I lived, and most importantly, wouldn't have the children that I have right now, and they're worth a thousand broken hearts by fantasy boys.

What I feel for my husband is nothing like what I felt for that boy; both of us are at an age when we're noticing our age, and there isn't anyone else I would want at my side along the way as I experiencing this next stage of my life.  He's comfortable, he's flexible, he understands me, and most importantly, no matter how angry I get at him, I never feel like shanking him with the butcher knife (yes...I HAVE been with men that I wanted to shank with the butcher knife).  When I reach that stage of life where everything is humiliating, I know he'll be there for me and help me get through it.  I am totally positive he'll take the role of my caregiver without complaints.  Nobody else I've been with has had what it takes to do that.

Interestingly, though...the other day my kids were looking through my old photo albums and found a picture of that first guy, the one I was infatuated with?  They asked me who he was and when I told them, they said "He looks like he could be Brian's (my husband's) brother!"  I had never noticed the resemblance before, but they were right.

i love my guy cause he understands my kooky side and embraces it, he knows i wear stripey socks with my sandals when i go down town to pick up milk and dosent mind, he also wipes my tears away when im having a 'moment'  he always cooks me dinner and always makes me laugh, he always gives me a goodmorning hug and i love that.

bottom line: he loves me for me, no one else have ever been able too..

Oh man....now you got V started...now he's gonna go off and get naked somewhere.

Has to go somewhere. Poor man is home alone all day while his wife works.

Must be doing something wrong. He's on the look out for his wife.

I love him because he gets me; we are true soul mates.No matter how many times I call him at work, he is always glad to talk and he is never without a story. If our walls could talk, they'd be laughing because we are always making each other laugh. Life with him is fun! I'm so glad I have him.

Back on the topic. I have been married for 44 years and without going into all the details, I would do it again with this wonderful woman. My wife is totally disabled for the last year and a half. She took care of me for all the other years and now it's my turn to take care of her. She is a person that would do anything for anyone and actually cared about them. What more can I say except I will take care of her as long as I can till one of us says good night for good.

TMI .....;)

Short answer:We respect and accept each other for who we are.

Because she was She, and mase a world in which I truly lived.

Why?

I haven't seen her in months and we've spoken once on the phone in the last four weeks...

...perfect bliss

I was married to someone else before I met starkers, and he was married to someone else too, one day in summer starkers daughter came to my place I lived in a block of untits  that had an inground pool, anyway starkers daughter came to the units to see her brother while she was there she and her brother went swimming, at this stage my daughter was only 3 years old and had seen these 2 people there swimming so she run up to our place and said "mummy can u take me for a swim" well I did that, I got talking to this older girl and she asked if I like tupperweare I said  yes and so I got invited to a tupperweare party,  the next day I goes to where the party was and I couldnt see where the house was, next thing I saw was a guy standing out the front and he called out to me asking weather or not i was looking for the tupperweare party, I said yes I am, he said you come to the right place, Wen I first seen him I thought mmmmm Yummmmy , and then I met his missus  and I um,OK Ill admit it I was jelous, since then we have been friends for a good 5 years before we got married

Because she's everything I could ever imagine in a lady. She is the epitome of supportiveness. She is a wonderful mother, a talented cook, and a wonderful friend. Oh, and she's cute, too.

Well, that's not my love-story for a girl. It's for chilly and plesant winter night. Now, it's summer and I remember those nights because I have to go to my village for some days and there is no power. So, it would be pretty hot there.

However I would remember this...

Glad that you guys have perfect lovers.

Don't ask about mine. Because I will tell myself hehe. I have seen her, I want to meet her but I don't know her phone no. I know her email id which I noted from the cyber cafe. Well, I go there-around few times if I could see her again. I will have to hurry otherwise some other boy will go after her.

And Fuzzy man you have the best... for you only lol

should have known.

pleasant

yes yes