Banned for yes, it is. I've known her for 24 years out of my 27, and she has always known what she wanted. First, she wanted someone to play with, (3) then she wanted a friend, (8) then she wanted a romantic relationship, (14) then she wanted a husband, (18) then she wanted kids, (19) and since she was 16, she has wanted sex, but that didn't start till our wedding night. (9 years ago)