Myrrander,
Your view is very much respected on this, and is one I wish many more atheists saw. They will often complain about the bias against them in society, which DOES exist, but exists largely because of the antagonistic push to remove all religious culture from society (such groups as Freedom From Religion come to mind). When a culture's values are threatened, that sulture will react.
Personally, I don't care what laws are enacted. My faith is not based on a legislative act nor a judicial edict. If you take offense to me putting a nativity on my lawn, tough titties. But in all fairness, I'm also the one that wanted to buy a resin Jesus statue and deck it out in a Mariners jacket and affix a bottle opener in its outstretched hand, which woulda pissed off the other side plenty.
As for the Pledge, it can say "under Barney the Dinosaur" for all I care. I don't say it. I'm just not prone to making promises I don't intend to keep.