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Although I tried for so long to keep my family together,the marriage had been dying a long,slow, death. Everytime I didn't want to "get with the program" divorce would be a word hurled at me. My youngest daughter had some special needs, and I needed time to help her ,and fight with the school system. A divorce would just not work. So, I would try to go along with things I know would not make me happy. Oh, and lets not forget how good the marriage could be if I would just change. Eventually I changed so much I no longer knew who I was. I forgot how strong, smart, and happy I used to be.
When the girls were about 10 & 11 I could tell the D word was about to be brought up. I started doing research about divorce and what needed to be done. When I finally got him to admit he really did want a divorce this time, I was ready. He was surprised I wasn't more upset! The next few steps took awhile and I will try to write more soon. This feels good to get some things off my chest. Thank you for your positive comments. See you soon
When the girls were about 10 & 11 I could tell the D word was about to be brought up. I started doing research about divorce and what needed to be done. When I finally got him to admit he really did want a divorce this time, I was ready. He was surprised I wasn't more upset! The next few steps took awhile and I will try to write more soon. This feels good to get some things off my chest. Thank you for your positive comments. See you soon