RIP Wendy 'Bug' Meinke

Sad, sad day... and it hits a bit closer to home lately - oh and I will never associate with the Democrats again either... read on.

http://www.detnews.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20070814/METRO/708140386
I have embarrased my family and for that I am truly sorry. It was not intentional for that to happen. I have deleted this article out of respect for them. I only wished to counter the bullshit that was being thrown about by the news, which of course always on the side of whatever is the flashiest at the time. Again, my appologies. Richard Elswick
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Wow. So now when a black man murders someone we need to arrest a WHITE suspect so we don't appear racist.

I'm sorry for your loss and I thank you for bringing this to our attention. This is ridiculous FAR beyond comprehension!
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I too am sorry for your loss, but this is what to expect in a politically correct world.
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Thanks for your thoughts. I wasn't that close, hell I am closer to some friends than I was with her, but still, thank you.

According to this article:

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It looks like they have released the second teen, Plummer, the 17 year old was released. Of course there are some greedy attorneys claiming he was beaten, but the prosecuting attorney says there is no evidence of this fact on any of the Video taped interviews with him while in jail. They also say that there is additional evidence in the case clearing their names. IF they had nothing to do with it, then the justice system at least has worked as it should have. I still question whether they had nothing to do with it, but I don't have any other fact or evidence to say one way or another.

Racial Profiling... still pisses me off. Oh well, like I said, Kiss them Dems good bye.

The 14 year old teen is still in custody.

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i'm also very sorry that your cousin was killed and even sadder she was taken from your family so violently and senselessly.

i've been thinking about the events and circumstances you've reported since i first encountered your article about 9:45 am pdt on 8/15; it's now 8/'18 at about 9:30pm and thoughts about these things continue to pop to the surface of my consciousness at least several times every waking hour.

this is my second attempt at responding. i began to do so two days ago but became concerned i might upset you at a time when you clearly need no more of that. after some rereading and in light of new information you provided, i've changed my mind once again. (i also read some of your archived articles and rightly or wrongly--altho hopefully accurately--determined from them you seem to be more rational than emotional and will hopefully understand what i'm about to say is intended to help clarify rather than camouflage.) .

i grew up downriver (in lincoln park) and went to elementary school there and to high school in wyandotte. this was quite some time ago and i haven't been back there since the mid-70s--and prior to that only infrequently (after hs, i moved close to wsu where i lived for the next 4+ years)..

i'm the last person to assert a claim to wisdom based solely on age, but there is one very bittersweet lesson i've sorta learned: change happens everywhere and all the time. so, if i arrived tomorrow in lincoln park, wyandotte, southgate or almost anywhere else in suburban detroit, i'd be more shocked to find those places as i remember them than the other way around--with one huge exception.

whatever other racial problems persist in america 2007, most of this nation's sizable cities (like 100k population+) are no longer bastions of racial segregation. america's most racially exclusive communities aren't found in the deep south but in metro detroit.

according to census data provided in series of articles on this very subject by the detroit news in 2002, 51.7% of wayne county residents are white, 42.2% are black and 6.1% are neither. only 4 of 42 incorporated municipalities in wayne county--ecorse, hamtramck, romulus and river rouge--are home to populations reflecting those proportions.
detroit itself, highland park (i never considered hp separate from detroit but..), royal oak township, southfield and inkster have much larger black-to-white ratios. 85%+ residents of the remaining 32 communities are white--with livonia having the dubious honor of being the whitest large city in both metro detroit and the usa.

you allude to this in your description of taylor:

You have a significant portion of the city's population that are originally from down south mostly Kentucky, which is where my family is from. Some denigrate the city by calling it Taylortucky. Well, the other part of the city is a decently sized Black population, the stats on the News article says 9%, but it is a very concentrated in one area 9%


while taylor's 9% black population comes close to reflecting national demographics, and isn't nearly as badly outta proportion as 28 of 42 wayne county cities with fewer than 5%--lots fewer in most of these--black residents, it's a bit of a stretch to describe taylor as having a 'decently sized black population'. your assertion that blacks in taylor live in one concentrated areas is supported by the fact that 95% of students at one of taylor's 15 elementary schools are white while 69% of students at another are black (enrollment is restricted by proximity). both schools hare roughly 430 students. (as an aside, teachers at the nearly all-white school earn on average more than $28,000 per year than their counterparts.)

it is pretty sad that Taylor doesn't have a single minority police officer on the force,


i dunno for sure, but i'm guessing the municipal employees are required to live in taylor which would diminish the pool of eligible applicants--altho not nearly so badly as those 15 wayne county communities with 1% or fewer black residents.

while it seems to me citizens of taylor as well as members of its police force would benefit by having non-white officers, that in itself would not render taylor pd--or any other police department--racially benign or malicious. seems reasonable to conclude a more diverse department might be less vulnerable to accusations of minority abuse.

one of the more disturbing aspects of metro detroit's de facto segregation is its association with racially abusive law enforcement. less than 50 years ago, dearborn police harassed and/or arrested blacks traveling thru their city at night unless they were in the company of a white person--preferably a resident of dearborn. i've seen members of other metro detroit suburban departments blatantly victimize non-whites on several occasions (for that matter, i've seen black detroit cops and wayne county sheriff deputies do the same thing).

with that in mind, this is one of a few questionable conclusions or observations offered in your original article:

The charges of racism in the city and it's police force go wayyyy back to then as well, so the argument by the protests of Race are bunk.


i'm always suspicious of retracted confessions--especially when quickly obtained and then quickly denied and associated with allegations of coercion--and i'm hopeful the residue tests are sufficiently conclusive to motivate the taylor pd to move on and redouble their efforts to apprehend the shooter(s).

you've not explained your cousin's kid(s?) involvement in events leading up to the shooting. it's possible they're also innocent victims--anything's possible--but it seems more likely they weren't targeted randomly. nothing they did justifies by any means what happened, but the backstory might well provide a basis for trial-worthy indictments.

considering how this played out, perhaps you'll understand why i found this a bit ironic:

Perhaps the Mothers of these two should have been a bit more proactive and knowledgeable about their activities outside basketball and school


you've been very candid in discussing your cousin. i don't mean to be contentious but it seems the same could be said of her.

i have more to add, but i don't wanna use up all the virtual paper allotted to your account.

thanks for permitting us a glimpse inside your world at a time when it could not have been an easy thing for you to do.
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So now when a black man murders someone we need to arrest a WHITE suspect so we don't appear racist


i've no idea how you arrived at this.
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No Political discussion here either ~~~ I am however another relative of the Murdered Mother of 6 in Taylor. Her name was Wendy Meinke

I will not go into what is right or wrong as for what happend the night our cousin was shot and killed while trying to protect her son. What I would like to say is I am very sorry to Josh, Tasha, Kelly, Austin, Ashley and Erick (Wendy's Children)
Her grandchildren, niece's, nephews, brother's, sister's, cousin's, Aunt's, Uncle's and friends. Not only am I very sorry for their loss but extremeley sorry that the this whole post is on here for EVERYONE to read. True or False.....Right or Wrong the decisions she made were hers to make, who are we to say if they were right or wrong?

We are entitled to Freedom of Speech I understand, Relswickwick I just wish you would have thought about what is going to go through the minds of her children. There ages are 22, 19, 15, 6, 4 and 6 months old. I was at the funeral and Thank GOD there was love and respect shown for her there by numerous friends and family members for her children to hear. Not to mention the rest of out LARGE and once close family.


Regarding the case
....
Depending on what you read and or watch there are many different accounts as to what happened on July 30th 2007 We will never really know. What the truth is There are 6 kids without a mother. Someone else in the State odf Mi. has been nurdered and the person who fired the fatal shot that killed my cousin is still out on the streets.
Not only that person but the others who know what happen they are just as guilty.

and children

Her children are all living with family members and along with the rest of us who
knew and loved her are praying that the person/persons who took Wendy Ellen Meinke's life will be caught and prosecuted to the fullest extent.

Wendy you will truly be missed by all of us.
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I do not want to stoop to name calling after including Wendy 5 of us are blood relatives. What I do want to do is keep the issue (THE MURDER) fresh in everyone's mind. In Hopes that someone who knows something my read this and come forward.




New suspect in Taylor shooting (News August 18th 2007)

Fourth person jailed after police released three teens in controversial case.

Christine Ferretti and Tony Gonzalez / The Detroit News



TAYLOR -- Police and prosecutors aren't talking, but a fourth man is in jail in the convoluted murder case of a Taylor single mother that's already seen three suspects freed in the past week.

Jujuan Earl Willis, 22, of Detroit is due in 23rd District Court on Monday on two counts of felony assault with intent to murder in the July 30 shooting -- a case that became embroiled in controversy last week because protesters claimed police rounded up black suspects for the white woman's death.

Willis, on probation for assault and battery, was arrested Tuesday. That's a day before prosecutors dropped charges against two black teens, and a day after they freed a 14-year-old who was held five days.

Neither police nor prosecutors disclosed the arrest when discussing the case at length this week. And they wouldn't comment Friday.

"The investigation is ongoing and we're working closely with the Taylor Police," said Jack Fennessey, spokesman for Wayne County Prosecutor Kym Worthy.

The twist is the latest in a case that Taylor cops call the most confusing in 20 years. Part of the discord stems from Wendy Meinke's death. Police recovered bullets from at least two guns after she died rushing to the aid of her son, who was arguing with several men outside Coppertree apartments. NOT CHASING IN A CAR
Witness statements changed often, police said. So, too, have plans for one freed suspect, Franklin Smith, 18, who was charged as an accessory.

He and Devin Plummer, 17, were described by supporters such as political consultant Adolph Mongo as college-bound students. But officials for Rock Valley College in Illinois refuted claims Friday that Smith was enrolled or even applied to the school.

Press releases this week indicated Smith had a scholarship to play basketball. The school doesn't offer them, said spokesman Mike Robinson.

Smith's mother, Gwen Johnson, called it a misunderstanding. She said he missed an Aug. 9 recruiting meeting with a coach because he was jailed. Smith's lawyer, Mark Brown, said supporters should have said he would have received financial aid if the meeting led to his enrollment.

Either way, the opportunity is gone, Brown said, and the issue is irrelevant to the injustice that ended when tests showed Plummer couldn't have fired a bullet that killed Meinke, 38, mother of six.

"These boys are innocent, and throwing dirt on their name does not take away from what the police did to them," Mongo said.

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It is with much shame that I removed it and it will be a long time, if ever, that I may overcome that shame. I am at a loss and my apologies to all. I did not mean to cause pain, but that is what I did as many of you have pointed out. There is no way I can repay the pain I have caused on top of the pain already suffered.
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You have done an honorable thing here.
I have removed my comments, because i believe you never intended any disgrace.
We all get carried away when we are angry or upset & the circumstances of this case as well as the frustration w/ the media has caused us all some greif.
I beleive you are an honorable man. Thank you for that

++++++++++++++++++RIP Bug, your family will miss you.+++++++++++++++++
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I agree and we greatly appreciate that you removed it. I think that the best thing we can all do here, is maybe keep it up to date on what is happening with the case. As stated before....maybe JUST maybe someone will know something and have the decency to come forward about it. By either contacting the Taylor Police Post or if I am not mistaken the news that I have heard is that the Michigan State Police are now invloved as well.
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As a member of Bug's family, I felt their was nothing wrong with the original post and I'm disappointed at the reaction you did recieve. I'm sorry that you were treated the way you were. You posted an honest and heartfelt reaction to this tragedy. None of us were close to Bug, including the people who felt the need to "shout" at you. Where were they when she was alive?
I myself, appreciate the original post and your honest feelings, because no one can expect anything else in this world. This is the US, not Russia or Communist China. A blog is a place for people to write their feelings, and if you do not agree with how someone feels, write in your own blog instead of ripping them apart. Some helpful links...
www.myspace.com
www.blogger.com
Also Rich, you have one cousin on your side.
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I was in no way shouting at him. We voiced our opinions as he asked and as he did.

Truthfully for the most part the post was fine, espcially countering the BS that Media is reporting. I am very sorry for the way you are feeling I am apologize that I am partially to blame for that. Just remember that we do all come from the same family and there have been MANY issues that have happend over the years and for the most part most of us can FORGIVE AND FORGET....The ones who continue to hold a grudge and can't get over it...let them be miserable....If you don't have family who do you have?????

You did say in the orignal post that this blog was intended to stir the pot (not the exact words) I guess that is what happened.

As for any of us being close.....Instead of getting together only for the bad things that happen.....We have a family reunion every year in July and as far as I know it is held the same weekend that it has been held for many years. I have also heard that there is another reunion in Kentucky this I believe is at the end of Septemeber.

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The July reunion is the Myra & Jeff family held either fhe weekend before or after the 4th of July. It has been changed a couple of times. The Kentucky reunion is around to the end of September and it is the all of the families. I believe it is still held at Great Aunt G House but not sure. Ask any of Myra & Jeff's kids they will know.
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I'm not sure how to start this. I knew Wendy for about 4 years. In that time, she managed to really make an impact on my life and with her being gone, there'll always be a gaping hole in my heart where she once occupied. She was one of the best friends I ever had and I never had the guts to tell her. Now I never can. She was the most down to earth and real woman I had ever known. Her being here was a blessing to all whose life she touched. Mine is marked forever from a person that had done so much, both without being asked and asking nothing in return.

The hardest thing I've ever done is trying to let go of the pain of the loss. I've seen some of the news reports and honestly, the only thing black and white is the fact that I'll never again hear her sing, see her habit of bobbling her head when she made a joke or looking at those electric blue eyes, followed by that gentle, soft voice that always seemed to smooth the bumps in the road out so easily. The world truly lost something beautiful. I offer my condolences to the family and and my deepest, most profound apologies to Wendy, whom I should have been man enough to admit what she was to me.

When I think about three words to describe her, the only three are Mother, Best Friend and Hero. I don't know if anyone will see this or even care, but I pray that letting it out a little bit may ease the pain that is so hard to push past. God be with you and care for you, Wendy. You'll always be my hero.