~decides to play the devil's advocate for a moment~
I don't think many people, while lying on their death bed, look back at their lives and say "Gee, I wish I had made more money."
I do, however, think many of them look back and say..."I wish I had spent more time with my loved ones."
As the child of a father who was always, and I mean ALWAYS working, (even when he was at home he was most often found at his desk, deeply involved in some sort of 'work' or another) I can easily say that for all the material comforts his efforts provided (we always had a nice house, good cars, exciting vacations) I'd trade them all today for a little more of his attention growing up.
Even in his retirement, the man is driven, involved in condo associations, church finances and assisting their neighbor Steffie in everything from tax preparation to hiring contractors, and nine times out of ten, when I call home, he passes the phone off to my mother immediately...because he's busy 'working.'
He's seventy-two years old. Work is a hard habit to break.
There's a myth here that people just don't understand: Wealthy people usually have MORE time.
Hollywood tends to distort reality to the point where what they portray is believed to be real.
For instance, in the movies, nerds are clueless and unsophisticated and easily fooled by the "cool people". But in real life, yea, nerds "get it". As a nerdy kind of a guy, it always annoyed me to see someone "subtlely" insult me at a party thinking that, as a nerdy guy, I wouldn't get it because I might be "book smart" but I wasn't "street wise" which was such ridiculous bullshit.
I know quite a few entrepreneurs and time and time again what hits me is how much more time they spend enjoying life and spending time with their families than most people do.
The difference is this: The successful business guy spends an extra hour or two a day at work over the average person but in return generates so much more income that they don't lose their weekends doing anything they dn't want to do. They don't spend their evenings doing anything they don't want to do. They get quality and quantity.
Sure, some guy might say "But people like to come home every night and spend hours working on their basesments" (rather than just hiring it out). And if that's really the case, good for them. But I don't think I've ever met anyone who could honestly say that they LIKE painting their walls or putting up dry wall or fixing the plumbing themselves.
But if they do like to spend hours and hours doing grunt work around the house, fine, they like it. Meanwhile, I'll hold my baby daughter in my arms while someone else is edging my yard or trimming the bushes or whatever.