"I'm guessing you are a former Bull Shitter that got better. Perhaps you can provide a twelve step program to my recovery?"
Step one, find a toilet, kneel, dunk your head in it, Flush.
Ahhh that felt better.
Look man, I have noticed some slow downs in 3v3 games with higher then 500 unit limits. But you know what, I have also noticed that when all the players had great systems on LAN with my same system the game is fine.
Bottom line, you can drop $4,000 of jack on a system and still end up playing MP with a guy who has a 2.4 ghz processor, 896 MB RAM, Geforce 6600, and it's still going to lag your game when I send 250 units into your base to kill you.
So yes you are right. It will be slower if you don't have a computer built with top of the line stuff, yesterday. But anybody should expect that a system with lower specs is going to have to make trade-offs on performance.
Your statements of which you have not rebutted whatsoever, were that you NEED to have top of the line equipment to run it and that you weren't kidding about it. Well you neither need top of the line equipment to run it, or to play MP.
If you have the minimum specs, the bare minimum, you may have to limit yourself to 1v1 or 2v2 games, with your settings on low, but hey, wouldn't be the first game you've had to limit yourself on because of that system.
Get my drift?