Communication
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Supposedly this is very important to people. I don’t agree but what do I know I am only perfect.
Communication is how we get our thoughts and ideas across to another person. It is not always the use of many words that allow us to communicate. It is not always what we say but how we say something that stops or allows us to communicate. Men communicate differently than women do. The average verbose male uses roughly 68,000 spoken words in a day, from good morning to good night. The average non-verbose female roughly uses 180,000 spoken words in a day. When the average person uses 58,000 spoken words from the time they get up until they return home what is left to say. For a man he as 10,000 words left, for a woman she has About 120,000 words left.
Now that we have something to use as a guide lets look at how to communicate. We know that men and women are different, and that men are ego driven while women are feelings driven. But even with that revelation we still have trouble communicating. Here is why. Men don’t listen to women and there is a good reason not to. Women try to communicate with men the same way they do with other women. Men don’t know how to do this so we seem like we are not interested in what the woman has to say and the woman feelings get hurt to compound the problem.
When a woman communicates with other women she is looking for visual as well as auditory cues that she is being understood. This is done by one woman making a statement, the other woman will make some kind of gesture as well as repeating the important parts back in her own words. This is the cue for the first woman to continue. Men communicate differently. We talk a great deal when we first get to know someone and then the verbal part tapers off and we begin to use grunts, laughs, jokes, and sarcasm as communication tools. The better we know someone the more crude the jokes and sarcasm becomes. An example would be" "Bitch, suck my dick!" If said to a stranger the translation would be: Pardon me sir, I need my ass beat senseless could you accommodate? If said to a long term friend the translation would be: No, my dear and valued friend, I disagree with your last statement, would you care to rethink your position on that? Understanding women a little as I do I can see where some women might get a little confused when listening in on men communicating.
Communication is how we get our thoughts and ideas across to another person. It is not always the use of many words that allow us to communicate. It is not always what we say but how we say something that stops or allows us to communicate. Men communicate differently than women do. The average verbose male uses roughly 68,000 spoken words in a day, from good morning to good night. The average non-verbose female roughly uses 180,000 spoken words in a day. When the average person uses 58,000 spoken words from the time they get up until they return home what is left to say. For a man he as 10,000 words left, for a woman she has About 120,000 words left.
Now that we have something to use as a guide lets look at how to communicate. We know that men and women are different, and that men are ego driven while women are feelings driven. But even with that revelation we still have trouble communicating. Here is why. Men don’t listen to women and there is a good reason not to. Women try to communicate with men the same way they do with other women. Men don’t know how to do this so we seem like we are not interested in what the woman has to say and the woman feelings get hurt to compound the problem.
When a woman communicates with other women she is looking for visual as well as auditory cues that she is being understood. This is done by one woman making a statement, the other woman will make some kind of gesture as well as repeating the important parts back in her own words. This is the cue for the first woman to continue. Men communicate differently. We talk a great deal when we first get to know someone and then the verbal part tapers off and we begin to use grunts, laughs, jokes, and sarcasm as communication tools. The better we know someone the more crude the jokes and sarcasm becomes. An example would be" "Bitch, suck my dick!" If said to a stranger the translation would be: Pardon me sir, I need my ass beat senseless could you accommodate? If said to a long term friend the translation would be: No, my dear and valued friend, I disagree with your last statement, would you care to rethink your position on that? Understanding women a little as I do I can see where some women might get a little confused when listening in on men communicating.