What did I say??

from JoeUser Forums
ok.... a guy just called 30 minutes ago, I gave him my number like 2 months ago (yeah he is calling me now) we were talking you know and everything was going fine and then he asked me my age I said 18 end here comes the sound Ouh!! yes that one and I said what is the problem and he said no nothing you look older he said, I thought you were 19(pffffff....) or 21 I'm like no( there is not so much diference for what he thought) anyways I asked his age age and he said 23 (not a problem for me) we kept talking and suddenly he said oh I got something to do (wtf) I'll call you later... ok.. what just happened? I said ok thinking that he will probably called me in next few minutes I'm still waiting for the call GOD this is so fustraiting
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Reply #1 from JoeUser Forums Top
Right... I think you shouldnt expect too much from him. But then again i could be wrong. I wouldnt think too much of it and just go on with my life. If he wants something to do with you he can call back, if not its not a big deal! So many boys so little time
Reply #2 from JoeUser Forums Top
There is a big difference between 18 and 23. That's 5 years of really learning about life and taking one's lumps. More than likely you two are in really different places.

Don't take this wrong, but I have more respect for the guy if he doesn't call you back.

I did the dating the older guy thing, and looking back on it, I think it was less a reflection of how "mature" I was than they guy needed to grow up. Maybe your case is different, but as far as I have ever seen 90 percent of that kind of age gap (time and ages involved) plays out the same or worse.

I also think that age gap thing evens out once people are in their 20s.

I wouldn't worry about him. Island Gurl is right, lots of boys and so little time.
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Reply #3 from JoeUser Forums Top
well... guess what the guy actually called today at 8 am( 8 AM 10 hours after he said he was going to call me) he left me a message saying that he was sorry, and he forgot to call me and I don't know something about a snake anyways I will not call him back ( guys don't say that you gonna call when actually you are NOT going to that is really out line and then left some creppy message with a lame excuse like we are going to belive it), I don't think is worthy actually. Today I got my fisrt date so I just hoping that at least it will not be disaster
Reply #4 from JoeUser Forums Top

First of all, punctuation is your friend.   I almost ran out of breath reading some of your sentences....I imagine you to be akin to the girl on the T-Mobile commercial who talks and talks and talks without taking a breath. Paragraphs are wonderful things too.

Now we've got that out of the way.....there's a BIG difference between 18 and 23, and I think that this guy you're talking to sees that.  A person can do a lot of maturing in 5 years....I know that the difference between myself at 18 and myself at 23 was HUGE. 

If I gave my number to a guy and he took 2 months to call me.....well, I wouldn't even give him the time of day. 

I suggest you do the same.