landen81: I demand an apology or you will be blocked from ever commenting on my blog again. Here's why:
I was born and raised in Texas. I live 20minutes north of Houston, Texas. I am, in every sense of the word, 'Southern'.
I also have strong judeo-christian beliefs, have been married for almost 9 years and could be considered the average Southern white male demographic.
Growing up, Ive had many male friends that were gay or straight, it never mattered to me, as we respected each others right to live free. My wife and I currently have a VERY good friend who is gay and HIV positive. He talks to us about the hardships of being HIV positive, the strains it places on his relationships and his family, and we also talk about a great many other things from politics (he supports Bush, BTW) to art and history and movies... anything you could think of. See, his being gay is far down on our list of his traits; he's a smart guy, hes very talented artistically, he is funny and fun to be around...his sexuality and his disease is so far down on our list of what makes him "him" to us it only matters in that it a topic that effects him personally.
It is ignorant for anyone to say southerners want to supress gay rights. There is bias ALL OVER THE WORLD against race, religion, sexuality and political beliefs. As a follower of Christs teachings I do not criticize our friend for being gay... nobody lives a perfect life, and I will not tear down someone else for anything they do in their own personal life. I would fight for his rights as a human being to have the same benefits in all areas of his life that I have. I am no better or no less than he is, we are both human beings, each unique, both free in these United States.
And one last thing - our friend says he doesn't want gay marriage. He figures if 50% of straight people cant get marriage right, why the hell should gays even want it?.